While Facebook is great to have all
your friends in one place, and you can quickly find what there up to, but it’s
also a place where there are so many of your so called “friends.” While all of
us have those friends on Facebook we know from school but we wouldn’t actually
spend more time with them then we have to. There are actually a select few off
of our total Facebook friend list that we spend a lot of time with. While
scrolling through my timeline there are a few people that just clog up my news
feed with silly pictures or status updates that we all know no one cares about.
For me there are really just a few people that I care to see what they are up
to. For all the rest of them I honestly don’t care what high score you got on
some game or this random page you liked. Facebook randomly seems to pick and
choose what it thinks it wants you to see, and it tends to show you some things
from certain people and not other things from that same person.
The reason I love Facebook so much
is that it is so convenient being that my best friend lives 8 hours away so by
getting on Facebook I can easily see what she’s up to. I can see all of her new
friends and it feels I can experience a small part her life. Even being
hundreds of miles apart, I still can communicate, connect with her, and it is
all easy to find in one place. Between messages, chatting, and commenting on
pictures, we can keep up with each other and stay in touch. Without Facebook
keeping in touch with her would be much more difficult.
“Creep” is a word that has definitely
changed since Facebook has gone so global. Before Facebook “creep” was a word
that tended to be a little sketchy and make some people feel a bit uneasy. Now
everyone is guilty of creeping on Facebook. Half of the point of Facebook is
for people to find others and look at all there pictures and everything on their
profile, to “creep” nonetheless.
However it’s also crazy how Facebook
has changed the definition of what a “friend” is. Who would you consider your “friend”? Are all
your Facebook friends your actual friends? When you look at all the friends you
have on Facebook, how many of them would you call up to hang out with? Probably
not many, I know most of my Facebook friends I’m really not that close to. And
when you look at all these people who have a couple thousand friends, it makes
you question how they a) know that many people and b) be close to that many
people. Most likely they couldn’t be that close to all of them, I would be surprised
if they were close to half of their Facebook friends.
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